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Sandy’s Leadership Journal
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Sandy’s Leadership Journal
Feb 11, 2012
g with difficult situations

Do you know how to deal with a crappy situation at work?
Say for instance, the small ones that happen every day, or even the big ones that make you want to quit?

You deal with these unpleasant cranky situations by going out for a run or a really hard walk.
Walk or run until your run out of steam, and then go some more. Follow this up with a lovely meal, to nourish yourself and feed your muscles. Then treat yourself to a good sleep to nourish your mind and body, so you can heal. You improve when you rest. This is true for sport as well as homework and employment.

If you have done all that, and you are still bothered, then perhaps you need to talk to the person involved to fix the situation.

People don’t bother us when we are truly happy.
I am all for doing what you can, being the best at work, living up to great expectations. However, many bad situations or angry discussions do not occur when YOU are happy.

Most people want to be liked by you.
Most people really don’t want to bother us, but we are sensitive creatures. Have you ever thought about the fact that people: a) do want to be liked and get along, b) they don’t really want you angry at them, and c) they don’t really want to piss you off,  or d) make you feel badly about what they just did?

Don't run on fumes, or be ready to be lit up like a fuse.
Many of us go to work tired, we don’t take the time to feed ourselves, right, and we don’t take the time to burn off steam and work out the vinegar until we are running on sweet lovely fumes. It is so easy to light a fuse on fire, when it is sitting there ready to be lit, all soaked in lighter fluid.

Be a great leader.
A great leader needs to be in a great mood. They need to know how to be calm and listen to their people. Leaders also need to see the good in every single person they work with. You want to be a great leader, don’t you? 

Work your butt off.
When you get out there and work your butt off: before work, at work, at play, and then sleep your butt off at night (and hey sex is also great to create great moods); life is great! You can see the greatness in others, and you can nourish that greatness in your company and employees.

Enjoy yourself!
So go on out there, enjoy your life and the people you work with! Take time for you! Sleep in, eat right, and workout. If you work out before work, you will burn off the steam that is usually reserved for fellow employees. You will also have more energy for work, you will have cleaned the brain out, your thinking will improve, and you will also have additional creative options open to you.



Sandy’s Leadership Journal Feb 10, 2012

Keeping fresh with a new sport.
I was looking for a new sport to challenge myself with, and I found it! I just got back from Red Bull’s Crashed Ice 2012 Vancouver qualifier.

I feel great. I haven’t skated for about 22 years. I only just found out about the sport 2-3 weeks ago. It took me almost all this time just to get my equipment, try a few sessions on rental skates, and try my new skates out.

Being free.
I can run like a kid and feel free and easy, but I haven’t jumped over anything for a very long time. It has also been a long time since I purposely fell and dove under anything.

The New Me!
Figuring out how to jump over an obstacle and dive under obstacles, required a new me.

Enjoying myself.
I felt great. I felt happy. I had the song “I am happy, and I know it” in my mind for days before hand (the techno version, not the song for children). Life was grand. I had a permanent grin on my face the size of my head. It feels so good to try something new and be energized by this newness!
Thanks Red Bull Crashed Ice!













 

 

 

 

 

 

Sept 11, 2011

Welcome to my new Leadership Journal.


Lately my thoughts have been about confidence, motivation, passion, focus, and commitment. The last few months have provided me with very clear insight into the catalyst which successfully creates each of these situations.

The secret
It is all in your head. Each and every single one of these states comes from how you think and feel about yourself and the situations you find yourself in.

What does this mean and how can this information be helpful
You have great power and ability to create personal confidence, motivation, passion, focus, and commitment. You just need to figure out how to get inside that head of yours and figure out the next step in your leadership progression.

A personal SWOT analysis will help you achieve personal confidence, motivation, passion, focus, and commitment by identifying the aspects you need to work on the most.
I find a personal SWOT analysis very helpful for the next step. No matter what level of leadership you find yourself in, a SWOT analysis can be very helpful in determining your next step in developing your leadership capabilities.

Take the time to ask yourself these questions:
What are your 1) Strengths 2) Weaknesses  3) Opportunities and 4) Threats.

First, let's look at your Strengths and Weaknesses
Are you reliable? Are you timely? Do you have the passion to succeed? Can you be depended on to get things done? Do you have the skills and resources?

List and then rank as many of your Strengths and Weaknesses you can think of (see the example SWOT ANALYSIS diagram below).

The next step is to figure out and list your Opportunities and Threats.
For instance, if you are timely and dependable, but the others in your field (your organization or the market in general) are not timely and dependable, these are the skills that will give you the market Opportunity.

If you aren't good at something (for instance public speaking) but your competitors are, this will be one of your Threats in the market.  You may be really great at doing something, but if you cannot communicate your Strengths to your market (clients and consumers), your business may go unnoticed. If you cannot communicate and fulfill your Opportunities, your leadership will not be apparent.

You can hire someone to make up for your weaknesses. But this is about YOUR capabilities and leadership. Therefore, you would want to develop your Weaknesses and Threats into Strengths and Opportunities.

Rank your Opportunities and Threats
This will really help you pinpoint where you need to spend your efforts each day. You may need to spend several months or even a year working on one of your
Weaknesses and Threats.

Pick the largest Threat or Weakness to work on at this time in your life, and turn it into your Opportunity or Strength
For instance, if you are not a talented public speaker and you have some time on your hands, you may want to join a local Toastmaster Club.


How does this relate to focus, confidence, passion, motivation and commitment?
If you know these states are a result of how you think and feel about yourself, you are able to develop yourselves to improve your leadership abilities, capabilities, and talents. Remember, how you feel about yourself is all in your head, and that is where it needs to be to make you successful. (External motivators are not as helpful). Once you know this, you can tackle almost anything, and learn to be confident, talented, passionate, focused, and motivated.

Spend time on tasks that make a difference in your life
In general, folks tend to spend their day fulfilling many of the tasks they complete on a daily basis, rather than the one important task which will help them get ahead in their career and life. If you can focus on this one task, you can develop the skills, passion, and motivation to get this task done and jump to your next big step in leadership and life.

SWOT ANALYSIS

Strengths

Weaknesses

Dependable

Timely

Intelligent

Personable

Able to speak one on one with ease and interest with others

Great at creating and delivering products and services

Public  speaking

Event planning

Opportunities

Threats

Your products and services are the best in the market – customers and clients who value great quality and services want to benefit from your products and services

The leader in your field/market has the ability to communicate their strengths, products and services to their clients and customers, and they can communicate their opportunities to shareholders, managers, owners.